Jeff Jones Blog

He Calls Us Friends

2012-02-03T14:10:00.003-05:00

"No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I heard from My Father I have made known to you." John 15:15, NKJV

I am going to speak this weekend at our church on the value that God places on friendships, so naturally I've been thinking about it all week.

I have always appreciated the depth and complexity of this passage of scripture because friendships tend to be complicated relationships. Jesus touched on a number of the components of friendships with His disciples. Here he is talking about the difference between relationships of convenience—the ones that by nature are surface level, and relationships of commitment—the ones that have depth to them.

If someone is a servant then the relationship is built around an assignment or a task. You perform this service for me, and while you are doing it I can be friendly to you, but it's all surface level. Don't get me wrong, it's not phony, it's real, but there is just not much depth to it. Now being friendly is a great trait, but that's not being a friend—the two things are miles apart.

Being friendly is just a trait, being a friend is when you begin to invest your life into the life of someone else. It's NOT something you do; rather it's someone you become. Being friendly is an adjective, but being a friend is a noun. Which brings us to the point of today's devotional. It seems that a person can go through their whole life playing the role of an adjective and miss out at becoming the noun, or person, that God created them to be! God did not make any of us to live our lives with only surface level relationships.

According to Jesus, the first step is to go a little deeper, to open up and share a little more than you would otherwise. One of the key phrases in this passage is “I have made known to you…” In other words, Jesus is saying, I’ve shared with you more than I’ve shared with anyone else. This is a great first step in developing solid friendships. It starts out by sharing more than just a task together; it starts when you begin to share your heart with one another. But that’s going to take time, it’s going to take space, and it’s going to take effort. Effort to slow down enough and to re-prioritize your time. And at times it’s just flat going to take a lot of work—because friendships don’t just happen on their own, they require an investment of your heart and your time. They need to be nurtured, cultivated and developed over time. But having what I would call healthy God-honoring, God-ordained friendships are awesome.

I believe that if we ask God to help us with this, that He will. You see friends are very important to the quality of our lives. We had a youth minister who used to tell our kids, “show me your friends and I’ll show you your future.” But you could actually take that thought one step further and say it like this, “show me your friends, and I’ll show you your present.” What do we mean by that? Well, it’s quite easy to see that a person who has quality friends has a quality life.

Friends will listen to you when others turn you away. They’ll encourage you when you’re down. They’ll give you a shoulder to cry on when you need it. They’ll even give you a boot to the butt when you need that more! Friends believe in you when others don’t. Friends will stand with you when others run away. Friends are a gift from God!

So, when was the last time you called your friends just to thank them for being your friend? Today, why not give them a call, shoot them an email, go out and buy them a cup of coffee and tell them how much you thank God for their friendship. Then take a minute and remind yourself of the best friend any of us could ever have—Jesus Christ! The One who no longer calls us His servants, but His friends! Enjoy your day.

Rest A While

2011-12-30T14:00:00.001-05:00

“And He said to them, "Come aside by yourselves to a deserted place and rest a while." For there were many coming and going, and they did not even have time to eat.” Mark 6:31

Wow, we just got through another Christmas season.

Does your life really seem to ramp up every December as you prepare for Christmas and New Year’s? Boy ours sure does. Between parties, events to attend, kids coming home from school and our Christmas services at church our schedules are booked solid. Life can get that way and what is supposed to be a great time with family and friends comes and goes without really appreciating it as much as we should because we never took time to rest. Did you know that is no surprise to God? In fact, He is the One who designed us with a need for regular times of rest and relaxation even during busy seasons.

Jesus knew that in the midst of a busy ministry schedule that He needed to make room for His disciples to get away and rest. But resting didn’t begin with Him it started at the time of creation. Remember what God did on the seventh day? Sure you do, He rested. We know that God never sleeps nor slumbers so why did He need to rest? Well, He really didn’t need to but was actually just giving us a pattern to live by. It’s the idea of working really hard when we work, and then making time in our lives to rest from it. In fact, God made a point to include rest as one the Ten Commandments. Can you imagine that? He made resting a commandment. Here’s what it says about it:

“For in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, and rested the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and hallowed it.” Exodus 20:11

A Sabbath is primarily a period of rest for the purpose of spiritual, physical and mental enrichment. The Jewish word for Sabbath is "Shabbat" and it comes from the root Shin-Bet-Tav, meaning to cease, to end, or to rest. In modern language we’d say, a time to disconnect from the normal day to day stuff, to get off the grid awhile and see that life really does go on without Facebook or Twitter.

World-class athletes understand the importance of resting their bodies. Farmers know that there are seasons where their land needs to rest. Horse trainers understand that between training and races that their animals need to be rested. Athletes know that their muscles need to re-build, farmers know that their land need to be replenished with nutrients, and horse trainers know that without rest their animals may face injury. If all of those folks understand the value of rest, how come you and I fight it?

This week we closed our offices and gave the staff time off just to chill and get some rest. Some took trips to see family; others used the time just to hang out with friends. I’ve read a couple of Tom Clancy spy novels. I have to admit that at times I felt a little guilty of not doing something more spiritual than reading about Jack Ryan saving the world, but it actually has been good to my soul.

What do you like to do that brings you rest? What can you engage yourself in to get away from the day-to-day routine? I urge you to make a point to set aside time this next year for regular times of rest. Jesus did, and so did his disciples, so why not you? You need to make time to “Rest A While.”

The Great Exchange

2011-12-20T08:41:00.004-05:00

"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son, that whoever believes on HIM should not perish but have everlasting life." John 3:16

This week at our annual staff Christmas party we always have a fun white elephant gift exchange where you can steal someone else’s gift or go for an unopened present. It’s always a blast to watch people maneuver to get the gift they really want, rather than leaving with something lame.

It reminds me of the very reason for this time of year. It’s the season when we celebrate God’s greatest gift of all—His son Jesus Christ. Because of what Jesus did for us we’re blessed to have the greatest gift exchange ever. You see Jesus didn’t just come to be born in a manger; He was destined to die on a cross for all of us. And because of what He has done this exchange has already happened. Now all we have to do is receive these gifts by faith.

Here are just a few of the gifts that we get to exchange:

(1) For Sin we received Forgiveness

In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of His grace. (Ephesians 1:7, NKJV)

(2) For Death we received Life

And you He made alive, who were dead in trespasses and sins…. (Ephesians 2:1, NKJV)

(3) For Depression we received Joy

…for the kingdom of God is not eating and drinking, but righteousness and peace andjoy in the Holy Spirit. (Romans 14:17, NKJV)

(4) For Anxiety we received Peace

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:6-7, NKJV)

(5) For Lack we received Abundance

For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though He was rich, yet for your sakes He became poor, that you through His poverty might become rich. (2 Corinthians 8:9, NKJV)

(6) For Sickness we received Health

But He was wounded for our transgressions; He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, and by His stripes we are healed. (Isaiah 53:5, NKJV)

(7) For Defeat we received Victory

But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. (1 Corinthians 15:57, NKJV)

Wow, those are some pretty awesome gifts. Just think about it. God loves you so much that He wants you to experience His gifts—of forgiveness, life, joy, peace, abundance, health and victory. I’d say that we’ve got a lot to be thankful for this Christmas season.

Prepare For More

2011-12-09T14:35:00.001-05:00

"Enlarge the place of your tent, and let them stretch out the curtain of your dwellings; do not spare; lengthen your cords, and strengthen your sake. For you shall expand to the right and to the left, and your descendants will inherit the nations, and make the desolate cities inhabited." Isaiah 54:2-3, NKJV

Have you ever noticed that people who accomplish a lot in life prepare for it? We just spent a couple of days of strategic planning with our executive team here at our church. Our focus wasn’t on how to better manage what the Lord has given us, but on how to manage what’s ahead. We were preparing for what’s coming, not what’s already here. That’s a huge paradigm shift for a lot of people. It seems like a lot of people spend all their time looking around at what they have and then use all their energy rearranging the furniture rather than making plans to knock out a wall and make room for more.

That’s why I love the verse above from Isaiah so much. It speaks of the importance of enlarging the place of your tent, stretching out your curtains, lengthening your cords, and strengthening your stakes—all in preparation for an increase that hasn’t come yet. That’s what faith does. Faith prepares. Faith sees things before they get here. Faith sees a future with more, not less.

What do you see in your future? Do you see more, or just more of the same? Maybe it’s time to start thinking different? Maybe it’s time to start seeing things differently through the eyes of faith. Proverbs says,“For as he thinks in his heart, so is he.” (Proverbs 23:7, NKJV) So in other words, our thoughts can either keep us small, or they will allow us to dream big. It’s time to start thinking bigger, to start seeing more in your life—starting today.

What do you need more of? More friends, more time with your family, more influence in your community, more opportunities at work, more customers/clients, or even more money in the bank? Whatever it is for you then start planning for it. Start stretching your thoughts, your dreams and desires and begin to prepare for their arrival. What would you have to adjust to accommodate more in your life? It’s time to think different, and to get ready for more. Can you see it?

His Love Will See Us Through

2011-12-02T14:47:00.002-05:00

"For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, angels nor principalities nor power, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord." Romans 8:38, NKJV

Here’s something to think about. God loves you, and there is absolutely nothing that can ever take that away. I don’t know about you, but that truth really ministers to my soul. Maybe it’s just me, but I so often equate God’s ability to love me based upon my performance. But God’s love for us is never based on what we do; it’s simply without conditions. He loves us, period! That concept is a bit hard to wrap our minds around because we tend to put conditions on everything we do.

I’ve been a bit discouraged lately with some things and I’ve realized that it’s been negatively affecting my relationship with God. What I’m trying to say is that I’ve been feeling like God’s just not that into me, that He doesn’t really care about me that much. But the truth is that He’s never stopped loving me, because that would be impossible for Him. He is love and He loves every one of us—all the time!

So remember that God loves you whether you hit a home run, or you strike out. Whether you hit the three-pointer, or throw up a ridiculous looking air ball. Whether you blow it up, or just blow it. Whether you appear perfect, or you come with a few scars. God loves you because…well He just does! He loves you because He is the One who made you. He loves you so much that He purposely made you different than every other person who has ever lived. You are unique, and you are special, and God’s love for you is without limits and without end. Don’t ever let anyone or anything steal this truth from you.

There is nothing you can do to earn it. Nothing you can do to deserve more of it. Nothing you can ever do to have it taken away. Nothing can ever separate us from God and His love.

There is a verse in Hebrews 13:5 in the Amplified Bible that really speaks to this. My favorite part says, “…for He, God Himself has said, I will not in any way fail you nor give you up nor leave you without support. I will not, I will not, I will not in any degree leave you helpless nor forsake nor let you down or relax My hold on you….”

That kind of commitment can only be explained by one word—Love. Because of God’s love for us He promises that He will never ever give up on us. So be encouraged today—no matter where you are, no matter what you’re going through—God’s love, His unconditional, unchanging, and unending love will see you through.

Quiet Down

2011-11-25T11:05:00.002-05:00

"Then He said, 'Go out, and stand on the mountain before the Lord.' And behold, the Lord passed by and a great and strong wind tore into the mountains and broke the rocks is pieces before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind; and after the wind an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire, and after the fire a still small voice." 1 Kings 19:11-12, NKJV

I remember my teachers in school shouting, “Quiet down!” over the roar of our classroom. Our teacher knew that she couldn’t talk over the noise of those kids. She knew that if anything was going to get done, we all needed to be quiet.

Do you ever have trouble stopping all the noise in your life? Does it seem like there is always some sort of noise running in the background? The trouble with commotion in our lives is that it makes it extremely difficult to hear from God. The passage of scripture above is showing us that we have a tendency to always look for God in the wind, the earthquakes and the fires of life. But that’s not His primary way of speaking with us. He’s looking for those times where we quiet down our lives so that we can hear His still small voice.

I don’t know about you, but I long to hear God’s still small voice. It reminds me of two verses that talk about getting quiet or getting still so that we can hear:

“…meditate within your heart on your bed and be still.” (Psalm 4:4, NKJV)

“Be still and know that I am God….” (Psalm 46:10, NKJV)

How can we ever have a quality “quiet time” when we don’t build margin in our lives to get quiet? How can we ever hear from heaven if we keep turning up the noises here on earth? I want to encourage you this weekend to carve some time in your life to hear from God.

Would you be willing to do an experiment with me? Will you set apart some time to find a place to get quiet and spend some time with God? Block out at least two hours – four would be better – and get yourself somewhere that you won’t be distracted by the wind, an earthquake or a fire. The first thing to do is quiet your mind and your heart. This may take more than a few minutes. Don’t try to get here too quick. It’s a time to really put your focus upon God. The second thing would be to write down some questions that you would like to know from God. Don’t be too generic or superficial, but write down real, heartfelt questions about your life. Then pray and ask God to bring clarity to you during this time. Ask Him to open up your heart to revelation knowledge about His plan and His will for you. Let this be a time where you are drawn closer to Him. He says that if we seek Him, we will find Him. Now it’s time to start reading your Bible. I would suggest to start by reading a few Proverbs, a few chapters in Psalms, and then some chapters out of the New Testament. Then begin to journal your thoughts. What are you seeing in the scriptures, what are you hearing? Then just go back and forth between reading then writing, writing and reading, and reading and writing. You get the picture? And please, whatever you do, don’t be in a hurry, don’t get distracted, but stay focused. Remember, God’s not in the wind, the earthquake or the fire – He’s in the still small voice. So quiet down, and listen!

A Work In Progress

2011-11-18T13:11:00.001-05:00

"But now, O Lord, You are our Father; We are the clay, and You our potter; And all we are the work of Your hand." Isaiah 64:8, NKJV

Will it ever stop? Will my need to hop up again on the Potter's wheel for a re-shaping ever end? I don't know about you, but it seems like I'm always finding myself challenged to either stay the same or allow God to mold and shape me into the person He wants me to be. You see, we're the clay and He's the Potter. We don't get to shape ourselves—He does! I've found that sometimes His re-shaping hurts. It hurts my ego, it hurts my pride and it even hurts my feelings. (Call the waaambulance) But in the end, it makes me a better person. How about you? Can you relate to this, or am I writing this just for me?

Did you know that God is always working in our lives? Sometimes He is very obvious and at other times He is working more behind-the-scenes shaping us into who He created us to be. Philippians 2:13 (NKJV) tells us, “…for it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure.” It all starts with our willingness to be open for God to work in our lives.

So where do we start? Where does our Potter need to do His most important and vital work? It starts in the heart. I love the cry of David in Psalm 139:23-24 (KJV),“Search me O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts; and see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.”

A natural potter works to shape the outside of his project, but our Potter knows that His work is an inside job. If we’ll let Him, He will shape our hearts in such a way that we can become a reflection of His Son Jesus Christ. In Ezekiel 36:26 God tells us that when we are born again He replaces our hearts of stone with hearts of flesh. He takes out our hard and immoveable hearts and gives us a pliable and moldable heart of flesh. That’s the kind of heart that He can work with. For so many years my heart was hard. It was hard toward others, and even hard toward God Himself. But when Jesus became the Lord of my life, He began to soften my heart in an amazing way. The really cool thing is that the Potter’s work on the inside began to show itself on the outside. So now some thirty years later I find that I still need the Potter more than ever. I just love it when the Potter does His thing in my heart, because He’s always working to make my heart look more like His. I admit it; I am a work in progress.

So today, will you join me in presenting our hearts to God? Let’s ask Him to do a work in us in ways that will please Him, and Him alone. A work that will cause us to be more like Jesus in everything we do.

Which Way Do I Go?

2011-11-12T13:08:00.001-05:00

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." Proverbs 3:5-6, NKJV

Life’s way too short to ever head down the wrong road. Why? Because it takes so much extra energy and effort to turn around rather than just take the right path in the first place. God’s got a straight path for every one of us; He always has the best route to get from point A to point B.

I love the simple plan that God lays out for us in the opening verse of this devo in terms of following His direction for our lives. Let’s walk this out together:

1. Trust in the Lord

It all starts with us trusting in Him more than we trust in ourselves. We are taught early on to trust ourselves, our ideas or even our instincts. But that’s not always the best. It’s best when we put our trust in the Lord. He sees the big picture. He sees things that we don’t see. He sees the roadblocks, the things in the road that will cause us to be delayed. When we choose to trust God with our decisions and the direction, it opens up the door for His guidance. It’s called faith. It’s when we get to the point when we seek God’s direction rather than coming up with our own. In John 16:13 Jesus says that the Holy Spirit will actually, “show us things to come.” He helps us to see further and better than we can see by ourselves. And this leads us to point number two.

2. Lean not on your own understanding.

This just means that we need to learn to “lean into God” more than we lean on our own brainpower. The way we lean into God is by presenting every part of our lives before the Lord in prayer. It’s something that we need to do daily through our quiet times, through journaling or those times we take extra time to prayer through our decisions. The Good Shepherd does speak to His sheep, but we have to be willing to listen. This brings us to point number three.

3. In all your ways acknowledge Him.

This is what happens when we bring our “issues” before the Lord. We’re just acknowledging our dependence upon the Lord. And by the way, that’s not for His benefit, it’s for ours. Because He knows that we need Him, we just need to consistently remind ourselves that we’re helpless without Him. Philippians 4:6 is a great reminder that we don’t have to worry that we’re making a wrong decision as long as we bring everything to Him in prayer. This brings us to point number four.

4. And He shall direct your paths.

This is our confidence. If we will trust in the Lord, lean not on our own understanding, and always acknowledge Him, we’ll stay on the right path. We won’t get off course. We can trust that He knows more than us and that the road we’re on will result in us staying in His perfect will for our lives.

Stay On God's Side

2011-11-05T13:38:00.002-04:00

"For the Lord is good; His mercy is everlasting, and His truth endures to all generations." Psalm 100:5 NKJV

When I was in Bible School one of our instructors used to say when it came to interpreting scripture, “Always stay on God’s side.”

He was wisely telling us that there would be times in life when we would begin to question certain scriptures, question our faith, and even the occasions when we would have more questions than we did answers. But he reminded us to always stay on the side of God, knowing that the Lord is good—all the time! So, let’s break this verse down into its three foundational components:

(1) The Lord is good.

God is good and He is good all the time. Is that just a fun saying or is that a reality that we can build our lives on? I’d say it’s one of the most important of these three foundational components of this verse. Jesus came to do His Father’s will. In fact, He said that He only did what He saw His Father doing, and what He did was good, and it was good all the time.

It’s hard to dispute that when we read Acts 10:38, which says, “…how God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Spirit and with power, who went about doing good and healing all who were oppressed by the devil, for God was with Him.” (NKJV) Did you notice what the power of God caused Jesus to do? It caused Him to do good – and to do good all the time.

So whatever you’re facing today, you need to know this: God is working behind the scenes for you and His work is good. So stay on God’s side.

(2) His mercy is everlasting.

This second component is also very important to get deep down into your soul. God is merciful and His mercy outlasts anything you could ever do. When you and I deserved judgment for our sin, God sent mercy in the form of His Son on the cross. When the woman caught in adultery was brought before Jesus, her accusers wanted judgment but Jesus offered mercy. God’s power to overcome our failures is without end. “Everlasting” simply means that God’s mercy is perpetual, it literally has no vanishing point, it never wavers and will never go away. God’s mercy will always always always be there for us, without question and without end. Lamentations 3:23 speaks of God’s mercy when it says, “They (His mercies) are new every morning; Great is Your faithfulness.” (NASB)

Today is a new day, so if you’ve blown it, simply ask God for mercy and it will be yours. God’s mercy is available to you today. So stay on God’s side.

(3) His truth endures to all generations.

What’s truth? What is truth to one person may not be truth to another. The only thing that we can ever really put our trust in is the Word of God. People change, fads come and go, opinions differ, but God’s Word always stays the same and we can build our lives upon that truth. Jesus said in John 8:32, “And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” (NKJV) God’s Word can really change the way we live if we’ll just believe it and put it into practice.

Knowing that God is good, that His mercy endures forever, and that His truth is everlasting is a huge revelation that I hope you spend the day meditating on. Because when you do it will help you through everything and anything that you may face. So remember to always stay on God’s side, because He will always stay on your side.

What's Your Mandate?

2011-10-28T16:18:00.002-04:00

"Then the way you live will always honor and please the Lord, and your lives will produce every kind of good fruit. All the while, you will grow as you learn to know God better and better." Colossians 1:10, NLT

Let’s be honest, do we really think it’s possible to live in such a way as to “always honor and please the Lord”? At first glance that might seem a little tough. I do think it’s totally possible, but not without some sort of plan. About 7 years ago I put together this list of 8 personal goals/challenges that I believed would help me to honor and please Jesus Christ with my life – as a man, a husband, a father and a pastor. This list is the first page of my planner, so I’m reminded of them everyday.

So, here’s my list:

(1) Maintain a genuine, growing, intimate relationship with God. (Matthew 4:4, Jeremiah 29:13)

By having a daily quiet time for personal prayer and devotional Bible reading.

(2) Love my wife as Jesus loves His Church. (Ephesians 5:25, Proverbs 5:15, 1 Peter 3:7)

By actively pursuing times for encouragement and communication through focused time with her.

(3) Be a loving and nurturing father to my children. (Ephesians 6:4)

By being actively engaged in their lives through quality time and activities.

(4) Have a lifestyle that promotes the kingdom of God through my work at Valley Family Church and as a member of our community. (1 Corinthians 9:22, 1 Timothy 3:7)

By living a holy and devoted life and being God-minded in my relationships in and outside of the church.

(5) Demonstrate good financial stewardship and integrity in all aspects of my life. (Luke 16:11-13, Proverbs 19:1, Proverbs 20:7)

By living within our annual budget, while saving and investing for our future, and by continued study in the area of investments.

(6) Develop my God-given gifts to fulfill my calling as a pastor and a leader. (1 Peter 4:10)

By having a personal growth plan, including listening to podcasts and CD’s, studying and furthering my education.

(7) Maintain my physical health through proper diet and exercise. (1 Corinthian 9:27, 3 John 2)

By eating right and scheduling regular times for running and weight training.

(8) Be committed to developing stronger relationships with friends, staff, church members and those outside the church. (Proverbs 18:24, Proverbs 27:17)

By actively pursuing opportunities to build relationships one on one.

So there they are, the principles that guide my life. Like I said, I call these my life mandates. So a little word of encouragement to you is to print this out and take some time to prayerfully consider what your personal mandate might look like. I’m sure it will be different than mine, but let’s connect in heaven and see how we both did.

I pray that as you live to honor and please the Lord, you will learn to know Him better and better.

With my love-

Jeff

Did I Really Say That?

2011-10-15T14:27:00.003-04:00

"Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one." Colossians 4:6, NKJV

Words will make or break every relationship that we have. Our words will either draw people to us, or they will push people away. Words…written or spoken…carry great weight in our lives. Words—spoken with grace, seasoned with salt.

Have you ever given any thought to how your words come across to the people in your life? I certainly have. For me, when I blow it, it’s not so much “what” I say, it’s “how” I say. Has that ever happened to you?

In today’s verse, God is encouraging us to let our words, “always be with grace.” Isn’t it amazing it think that it’s possible for the grace of God to be extended to people through our words? Our words can actually build people up. Or on the flip side, our words can be spoken without grace, and therefore they can tear people down. Even if you need to speak words of correction to someone you can season those words with salt. That just means we can frame our words in such a way that even though they are corrective, they can be easily swallowed, or heard.

In Matthew 12:37 (NKJV) Jesus said, “For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.” Can you see that we will be judged by the very words that we say? And really, we could say that our lives today can be judged by how we talk to, and about people. Our words will either justify us or they will condemn us. I don’t know about you, but I want my words to always be filled with enormous amounts of God’s grace, and seasoned with heavenly inspired salt. How about you? Every minute of every day we choose to either use positive or negative words.

In Ephesians 4:29 (NKJV) we are reminded again of the power contained in our words. It says, “Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouths, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers.” So here we see it again, our words can either edify or build people up, or our words can be used to tear people down.

Here’s today’s challenge. Let’s take inventory of all the words that we say today and the tone that we use to deliver them. Let’s see if we can change the quality of our worlds as we change the quality of our words.

Real Friendships Always Cost Something!

2011-10-15T14:23:00.001-04:00

"A man who has friends must himself be friendly, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother." Proverbs 18:24, NKJV

Isn’t it great to have friends who really care about your life and invest themselves in your friendship? We were really blessed this week by our friends John and Sharon Hull from Atlanta. They invited us to come down this week and stay with them for the sole purpose of introducing us to some of their friends. It was a super cool thing for them to do for us. It’s one of those life experiences that you could never put a price tag on. It really meant a lot for us when they opened up their world, and invited us to get to know their friends.

But this act of kindness and generosity is a reminder of the cost associated with having friends. You’ve probably figured out by now that friendships aren’t easy, and on top of that, they always cost something. But, there is a great return on the investment—it’s called a full and satisfying life. Here are a few random thoughts about friendships:

(1) Friends usually see the good things in you that you don’t always see in yourself. Isn’t it totally awesome that your friends just like you…because…they like you? Even on those days that you don’t like yourself? I believe that God brings us friends as a way to remind us that He likes us too.

(2) Friends take an interest in your life and they make sure that the things that matter to you, matter to them.

(3) Friends will defend you when other people say nasty things about you. They always see the best in you because they believe in you. I love how today’s verse says that there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. You see a brother is your brother no matter if things are good or bad, up or down – you’re just stuck. Well that’s what a good friend will be. When others abandon you, they’ll be there.

(4) Friends would rather stay up late and talk all night than sleep because they cherish the time they get to have with you.

(5) Friends would rather buy something for you than buy something for themselves because they value you and your friendship.

(6) Friendships take lots of time to develop, and to have good friendships requires a commitment from both parties. Strong relationships can’t be microwaved; they need time in the crock-pot. So find ways to connect regularly with your friends by phone, email, over coffee, or through a dinner or lunch once a month. Do whatever it takes. It won’t be wasted time.

(7) Friends will help you laugh till you cry. They’ll give you their ear when you just need to talk through something that is important. They’ll even help you pick up the pieces when your life seems to be falling down around you. Why? Because they are your friend.

So, how are you doing? What friendships do you need to be cultivating in your life? Go ahead – make that phone call, send out that email and start making friends. Remember, “A man who has friends must himself be friendly.” Don’t wait another minute; it’s so worth the cost!

Jesus Love Me This I Know

2011-10-15T14:19:00.002-04:00

"[That you may really come] to know [practically, through experience for yourselves] the love of Christ, which far surpasses mere knowledge [without experience]; that you may be filled [through all your being] unto all the fullness of God [may have the richest measure of the divine Presence, and become a body wholly filled and flooded with God Himself]!" Ephesians 3:19, AMP

Did you know that there isn’t a thing you have to do today to earn the love of God? God is absolutely head-over-heels in love with you. Do you ever find yourself doing this? Trying to earn the love of God, or trying to do something—anything—that will cause God to accept and approve of you? Well, none of your silly efforts can do a thing to cause Him to love you any more than He already does. I know that is a little hard to grasp, but it’s true.

In Romans 5:8 (NKJV) we’re told that, “…God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” He showed the world, and He showed us, that even though we were separated from God because of our sin, He loved us enough to send His Son to die for us. That’s proof positive that He must love us without conditions. Because when we were in our worst condition He gave His all for us. But that kind of commitment and sacrifice is so contrary to the way this world works, it sometimes just seems like just empty words.

That must be why the Apostle Paul was led to pray that we would, “…come to know [practically, through experience for yourselves] the love of Christ.” (Ephesians 3:19, AMP) His prayer is so personal and yet so practical. He prayed that we would come to know practically, through our own experience, the love that Jesus has for us. So, the million-dollar question is, why? Why is it so important that we experience God’s love for ourselves. Well that’s easy, because when we fully understand and experience God’s love on a personal level it will absolutely, completely and totally change how we live our lives.

1 John 4:19 in many translations says, “We love Him, because He first loved us.” Well actually, the more accurate translation is, “We love, because He first loved us.” In other words, when we come to know and experience God’s love on a personal level it affects every area of our lives. When we experience firsthand God’s love for us, then we can truly learn to love others. Even those folks who aren’t so easy to love. But it goes way beyond that – we love God, we love life, we love our friends, our work, our families – we become loving fools. All because He loves us. It’s contagious!

So, today I pray that God will find ways to make His love for you more real than ever before. I pray that God’s love will totally rock your world in such a way that you’ll never ever be the same.

Know Your Season

2011-09-23T11:22:00.002-04:00

"To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven." Ecclesiastes 3:1, NKJV

I absolutely love the fall. We've been super blessed to live most of our lives in Michigan, which has four very distinct seasons. I must admit that one of my favorite seasons is the one we’re in right now. The weather is cooling down, the days are getting a little shorter and fall sports are in full gear.

Each season has its benefits – the things that make it unique; and each season has its characteristics that aren't so great. But every season is equally important because as one season comes to a close, it ushers in a fresh new season.

Did you notice today's scripture? It says, "To everything there is a season...." That means that just like the climate, we are all going to go through different spiritual seasons throughout our lives. It's unavoidable – it's going to happen. So, we'd be wise to learn to recognize the particular season that we're in so that we can learn to weather, if you will, whatever season we're in by faith. So, let's break down those seasons:

(1) Spring Who doesn't love the spring? It’s the season of freshness and life. After a winter of cold and snow, the birth of new life is everywhere you look. It's April showers bringing out May's flowers. On the ground, in the trees – it's everywhere and it's undeniable. It's the time when the farmers are preparing the ground for seed. It's a time of preparation for the things to come. Often these are the feelings that we have when we first give our lives to Jesus, where we are overwhelmed by the excitement of learning about our Savior and growing in our knowledge of His Word. Everything around us seems to be teeming with spiritual life. But Spring is just a season.

(2) Summer Then comes summer, hallelujah! Schools out and it's time for motorcycle riding, BBQ's in the back yard, trips to the beach, summer vacations and weekends at the cottage. The weather is nicer, the days are longer and the folks around here just feel better. It's a great season to spend with family and friends. But, because of the heat, things can start to get dry, and if we're not careful we start to see things drying up or even wilting away. So what do we do? We turn on the sprinklers and pray for rain to help those crops grow. It's a time of patience for the farmers because harvest season is still months away. But they know that even though they may not see the fruit of their labors, the harvest is coming. Did you know that the same thing is true spiritually? We can get dry. Our worship feels dry, our prayer times feel dry, our feelings toward God are dry. The answer to this is a constant amount of spiritual watering every day with God's Word. Summers can be a dry time, a time where we need to learn to be patient, a time to trust that God is working behind the scenes even if we don't feel it. But Summer is just a season.

(3) Fall Then it happens…before we know it, fall is here. You start to feel it in the air. You can't always tell what it is, but something is different. It's harvest season for the farmers. It's what they have anticipated all year long and now it is finally here. Their sowing, weeding, watering and nurturing has paid off and now it's time to reap. Did you know that there is a spiritual harvest season for us too? Now it may not always come on an annual basis, but a harvest always comes to those who sow. Let these words in Galatians 6:7-9 (NKJV) minister to your heart:

“Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap. For he who sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap corruption, but he who sows to the Spirit will of the Spirit reap everlasting life. And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart.”

But Fall is just a season.

(4) Winter For every spring, for every summer and for every fall there is a winter. I have to admit that of the four seasons this is my least favorite. It's cold, the days are shorter, the weather tends to be worse and it seems like every trip just takes longer. But then those special days come after a fresh snowfall when the sight of the snow on the trees is just breathtaking. Around Michigan we usually have a number of "snow days" when everything just shuts down, and we have to dig ourselves out of a mess of snow. Do you know that the same thing is true spiritually? Sometimes life throws a pile of snow at us and laughs in our face and says, "Take that!" So, what do we do? We remind ourselves that winter is just a season, and with God's help we start digging ourselves out and look to help dig others out as well.

So, learn to recognize the season you are in and never forget that each season has its purpose, and that in the end you'll be stronger because you learned to trust God through every season of life.

An Open Letter of Thankfulness and Appreciation

2011-09-16T10:54:00.001-04:00

Then we, your people, the ones you love and care for, will thank you over and over and over. We’ll tell everyone we meet how wonderful you are, how praiseworthy you are!" Psalm 79:13, The Message Bible

My Dear Lord:

Today, my heart is full of thanksgiving and appreciation to You and You alone for these past 30 years that we’ve been together. Because of You, I was able to marry the absolute perfect person to share life with. This year we celebrated our 25th year of a marriage made in heaven and I am so thankful. I can honestly tell You Jesus, that I love her and You more today than I ever have. Thank You for guiding us through the lean years, and the years of plenty. The easy years—and the not so easy ones. Thank You for helping us stick together like glue.

I’m thankful that this weekend we will celebrate our 20th year of pastoral ministry together at Valley Family Church. From the early days at the Richland Lodge when we often felt like no one cared whether we were there or not, we always knew You did! Thanks for always having our backs. For always meeting our needs. For always encouraging us when we were down. For always being there for us when those we thought would be our friends for life—disappeared. For always kicking our butts when we needed it. And for helping us to always keep our eyes on You.

I’m thankful for the four incredible children that You blessed us with, and the one in heaven that we’re waiting to meet for the first time. Our hearts are so full and so happy as we see each one of our kids love You with such intensity and sincerity. It’s funny how lately we’ve received criticism for focusing some of our attention on this next generation, but You said that in these last days You would pour out Your Spirit upon our sons and daughters, and it’s so great to see You doing that. Thanks too for helping us to be parents who were able to direct our kids towards You in a way that was attractive to them. We couldn’t have done that apart from You Jesus, and we’re just so thankful for Your guidance every step of the way. They found the joy of knowing You on a very personal level, not just because mom and dad were in ministry.

I’m thankful for our ministry friends here and around the world. Friends who understand our lives because their lives are so much like ours. Friends who inspire us, who challenge us and love us for who we are, not what we do. Friends we can talk with, laugh with, cry with and change the world with.

I’m thankful for the folks who call Valley Family Church their home. I’m thankful for a staff that ALWAYS goes the extra mile. I’m thankful for our volunteers and interns who constantly give so much of their time and energy for eternal purposes. I’m thankful for those who have been faithful financial supporters for all of these years. But most of all I’m thankful for what’s ahead. I believe that our best days and years are before us. I’m thankful that we get to watch You expand our vision and influence to this generation and beyond. God, You’ve got massive things ahead, which gives us a reason to get up every day and put our hands to the plow and work on kingdom business for You our King. For that I am very thankful.

Finally Lord Jesus, thank You for becoming a man, for living a sinless life and for sacrificing Your life for ours. Because You gave Your life for us, we freely give our lives to You with hearts full of thanksgiving.

Yours forever-

Jeff

How Bad Do You Want It?

2011-09-09T12:22:00.001-04:00

“For which of you, intending to build a tower, does not sit down first and count the cost, where he has enough to finish it?” Luke 14:28

Can I be honest with you? I didn’t feel like writing today’s devotional. It’s been a long and busy day and I feel like going to get some dinner and then go home and watch the opening season game of the NFL. But I don’t have that option right now because before I go I need to get this done. Ever been in a similar situation? If and when you do, you’ve got to ask yourself the question, “how bad do I want to succeed, how bad do I want to fulfill God’s will and God’s purpose in my life?” You know Jesus wasn’t just talking here about a building here; He was talking about counting the cost of building a life of significance.

It seems like too many of us aren’t willing to admit that the reason that we didn’t make the team, get that promotion, and the reason that we aren’t moving forward in life is that we aren’t willing to put forth the effort and do the hard stuff. It means that there are times when everyone else has gone home that we’re willing to stay after hours and get our work done. Come on now, isn’t it time for us to start counting the cost! How hard are you willing to work at life? Here’s something to consider—No one is going to work harder for your success than you are. Not your boss, not your peers, and certainly not those who work for it. It reminds me of an old saying, “If it’s going to be, than it’s up to me.” Now I’m not discounting God in all of this, but really, do we think God’s going to work harder at our success than we are? Do you think He’s standing by up there in heaven waiting to come down here and help you out because you’re a little tired? He’s the Redeemer of the lost, not the Rescuer of the lazy. Come on now; let’s count the cost!

If we’re going to ever fulfill God’s will for our lives than we need to count the cost. Have you figured out yet that living for Jesus is going to cost you something? And if you’re going to be a success in life that it’s going to cost you even more? Jim Morin, a dear member of our church family once said, “Everything that I value in my life, has cost me something.” It reminds me of that verse in Galatians 6:7, “Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap.” In other words, whatever we put into life will cost us something, but there is a payback, a reaping based on the degree of our efforts.

My wife Beth, is by far, the hardest working person that I have ever known, and I’ve know a lot of people. There may be people out there that want to enjoy the benefits that Beth enjoys, but they don’t have a clue of how hard she has worked, over so many years. Literally, it’s quite common for her to work 16-18 hour days for weeks and months on end. Now that costs something, but the benefit is a very successful and fruitful life. She recently purchased a pretty expensive anniversary gift for yours truly, and she bought it with cash. You see, she’s reaping today because she was willing to count the cost and do the hard stuff, even when she didn’t feel like it.

So today, let’s tap into all that God has for us and work a little harder, stay a little latter, carry a little more of the load, and honor Jesus Christ by our work ethic, and our willingness to do the hard things.

For The Least Of These

2011-07-22T22:11:00.001-04:00

"'I was hungry and you gave Me food; I was thirsty and you gave Me drink; I was a stranger and you took Me in; I was naked and you clothed Me; I was sick and you visited Me; I was in prison and you came to Me.' Then the righteous will answer Him, saying, 'Lord, when did we see You hungry and feed You, or thirsty and give You drink? When did we see You a stranger and take You in, or naked and clothe You? Or when did we see You sick, or in prison, and come to You?' And the King will answer and say to them, 'Assuredly, I say to you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me.'" Matthew 25:35-40, NKJV

Just days ago I returned home from Guatemala, where I had the privilege to be a part of a thirteen-member team from Valley Family Church that went down to work with Pray America. (http://www.prayamerica.org) Its founder is a wonderful man by the name of Ron Morin. He is one of those unassuming guys, doing a massive work in that part of the world. They are located in an area called Chichicastenango or what we affectionately call, “Chichi.”

While there we built four homes for widows and their families, worked in Pray America’s feeding programs, distributed ovens, water filters, and gave away shoes to a bunch of kids in a school. The poverty and lack is staggering, yet the people were so joyful. Particularly joyful were the widows who were given a new home and a basket full of food and toys for their kids.

We were all touched in a deep way at the feeding programs. It wasn't just seeing the hungry kids; it was seeing them eat a little food off their plates and then happily stuffing ninety percent of it into a plastic bag to take home to their families. It was truly amazing to see a three or four-year-old more concerned about their family’s needs than their own. Like I said, it was very moving, knowing that this was quite possibly their largest meal for a week.

It reminds me of what the Apostle Paul said in Philippians 4:12-13 (NKJV),

“I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

Paul had learned to rely on his faith in Jesus Christ when he had little and when he had much. The joy of his faith wasn't dependent upon the things that he had or what he didn't have, his faith was in Who he had in his heart – Jesus Christ! In the midst of all of that lack, my heart is full because of my faith in the One who made this world, the One who loves us, cares for us, is there for us and the One who asks us to do what we can for those who don't have much.

As I left that place, I'll forever be more grateful and thankful for what I DO have than what I don’t have. Now don't get me wrong, I don't feel bad by what God has blessed my life with, but I feel challenged to do an even better job of sharing what I have with others.

Thanks for letting me share our experience with you.

Encourage Yourself

2011-06-03T09:30:00.001-04:00

"And David was greatly distressed; for the people spake of stoning him, because the soul of all the people was grieved, every man for his sons and for his daughters: but David encouraged himself in the Lord his God." 1 Samuel 30:6, KJV

Ever made a decision that caused people to turn against you? In this particular story David made a decision to send his men into battle, but when they returned they found that the enemy had burned their city, stolen their goods and kidnapped their families, including David’s. Not what you’d call a good day. Instead of comforting one another they looked for a scapegoat and turned against their leader David. Have you noticed that when your decisions are good ones, people are quick to share the credit with you? But if the decision’s not so good, they are even quicker to point a finger at you? I’ve heard it said, that at times it can be pretty lonely at the top.

We’re a fickle bunch aren’t we? I wonder if sometimes we’re just way too quick to throw our leaders under the bus when we don’t agree with a decision they've made or, like David, when they've make a bad decision. Here in this story, these men who were affected in such a positive way by David’s leadership quickly turned on David because he hadn’t prepared for this one contingency. This band of brothers snapped and were now prepared to stone the very one who they had learned so much from. So, what was David’s response? “He encouraged himself in the Lord his God.”

We can learn a lot from David’s response. First of all, he didn’t have a pity party. You see, leaders don’t have the liberty for pity parties. As much as we’d like to, there’s no time…we have to lead, and keep leading even when we make mistakes. David had clearly made a poor decision here and although his men wanted to beat him up for it, he couldn’t beat himself up. He did what we all need to do if we find ourselves in similar situations – encourage ourselves in the Lord our God!

So, to be encouraged in the Lord we need to do two things.

First, we need to repent and ask God to forgive us. Ok, you blew it, you didn’t do your homework and you made a bad decision without thinking through all the facts. Join the club. We’ve all sinned and fallen short. But now what? We need to turn to the One who went to the cross for us! The One who understands us, and the One who will never leave us nor forsake us when we make good decisions or bad ones. 1 John says, “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9, KJV) In other words, when people want to stone us, God has our backs and is willing to forgive. So we’ve got to be like our old friend Clebe McClary, who always says, "FIDO” – which stands for “fix it and drive on!” In other words, go to God and ask Him to forgive you. Get things “fixed” with Him and then drive on.

The second thing we need to do is be proactive and ask God for direction. That’s exactly what David did in 1 Samuel 30:8 (KJV) when he asked the Lord, “…shall I pursue this troop? Shall I overtake them?” God’s answer to both of these questions was yes. He told David to pursue the bad guys, overtake them and that everything would be restored.

So, have you made a mistake? Are there people in your life who want to stone you? Then it’s time to encourage yourself in the Lord your God, repent, get God’s direction on what to do next and then fix it and drive on. Remember your best days are ahead!

With love-

Jeff

A Work In Progress

2011-05-27T09:03:00.004-04:00

"For I say, through the grace given to me, to everyone who is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think soberly, as God has dealt to each one a measure of faith." Romans 12:3, NKJV

Don’t you just love working with people? We’re all so different and on top of that we’re all works in progress. I put myself in that category as well…a work in progress…so as I share this with you today, I pray that it doesn’t come across judgmental or critical, but that it will actually help of few of us.

I’ve come across several situations in my work as a pastor in dealing with some people who can best be described as “thinking of themselves more highly than they ought to think.” Now don’t get me wrong, they are good people, but they are just not seeing themselves the way they should. I’ve tried to put my finger on it and I think it can best be described as the “teenager syndrome.” Do you remember those years, when you thought you really knew the score on life? The years when you thought mom and dad were just so out of touch with life, were complete idiots and totally clueless, if only your parents could be as smart as you? But then it happened – you grew up – and somehow they got smarter.

Did you know that if we’re not careful the same thing could happen to us spiritually? According to 1 Corinthians 8:1 (NKJV) when we gain a little knowledge it can sometimes puff us up. Ever seen a blowfish? They are the fish that puff themselves up so it looks like they are much bigger than they really are. Well, sometimes we can do the same thing and think that we’re bigger, smarter, or even more spiritually mature than we really are. The danger is that we stop listening to the very people that God has placed in our lives to teach us, and help guide us through life.

It’s unfortunate, but as a pastor I’ve seen this very thing shipwreck people’s faith. Imagine what would happen if you made a decision at home that your teenager didn’t like, if there was a conflict or they didn’t get to do what they wanted, and their response was, “Mom and Dad, I believe the Lord is moving us on…my season here is up.” As parents we’d send them to their room and tell them not to come out until they changed their attitude. But that’s not what us loving pastors do. Oh no, we just love on them and let them go. I sometimes wonder if that’s really the right thing to do.

So what can we do to avoid the spiritual “teenager syndrome”?

First, be honest enough to admit that it exists. Just know that it takes decades to grow up in the Lord, not months, or even a few years. There’s an old saying that to be forewarned is to be forearmed.

Second, stay little in your own eyes. That’s the warning that the prophet Samuel gave Saul when he took matters into his own hands in 1 Samuel 15:17 (NKJV),

“So Samuel said, ‘When you were little in your own eyes,were you not head of the tribes of Israel?And did not the Lord anoint you king over Israel?’”

There’s no doubt that God was able to anoint Saul to be king because he was little in his own eyes, but then he got in trouble when he stopped listening to Samuel and decided to take things into his own hands.

Isn’t it really just an issue of spiritual pride? That’s why God reminds us of this in 1 Peter 5:5-6 (NKJV),

“Likewise you younger people, submit yourselves to your elders.Yes, all of you be submissive to one another, and be clothed with humility, for ‘God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.’ Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time.”

Would you agree that all of this takes faith? Because sometimes we just don’t want to humble ourselves. Sometimes we just don’t want to listen to anybody but us, our own thoughts and ideas. But that’s not God’s way. So, let’s stay little in our own eyes, stay humble and teachable and trust God to keep working on us, because in the end, we’re all a work in progress.

Pray For Them-- It's The Least We Can Do!

2011-05-26T14:55:00.002-04:00

"Therefore I exhort first of all that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks be made for all men, for kings and all who are in authority, that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and reverence." 1 Timothy 2:1-2

Ever wonder why God asks us to pray for those that are in authority? It’s because they need it! This became very real for me this week as I experienced two days of training exercises with the Kalamazoo Department of Public Safety. One my co-workers, Matt Munson, and I were invited to join a group of community leaders for what KDPS calls a “Citizens Leadership Academy.” For two days we were exposed to the various aspects of what it means to be a Public Safety Officer.

It was an incredible two days of hands-on experiences. Our first day began with a 2-hour discussion on the use of force, and ended with one of the officers being tazed to demonstrate how they are able gain control of an out-of-control situation with the least amount of bodily harm. We then went out to the fire tower for fire-fighting training. Until you’ve put on all that heavy fire gear, an oxygen tank and have gotten on your hands and knees and crawled through a smoke filled room, you’ll never fully appreciate what they do, and how they lay their lives on the line to save others. We then spent a couple of hours with the guys from K-9. We worked with the head of the K-9 division who trains both the officers and their dogs for duty. These teams are simply amazing, and so dedicated to one another. We met the officers and their partners and all I can say is they were both incredible. These dogs are all cross-trained to smell dope, track a suspect running through the woods, find a gun thrown into a field, and if necessary will bite once and hold their suspects, all at the command of their handlers. Then at the end of the shift they (man and dog) go home together and share their lives off duty. We ended that first day with some adrenalin pumping exercises with SWAT. Just one word…wow!

Our second day began with a large screen computer-training simulator called MILO, where we experienced “shoot, no shoot” scenarios just like the officers will face. Not sure my heart has raced quite like that in my 50 plus years. Next was traffic stops where we again experienced first hand some of the tough and very tense situations that can occur in any traffic stop. Our day ended at the shooting range, and not being a guy who has spent much time around firearms, I was shaking like a leaf. The last exercise of the day was a “shoot, no shoot” drill with live ammo at paper targets in a darkened room. Oh my, I’m breaking out in a sweat just typing these words. I can’t imagine what it would be like in a real life situation.

You may not be aware of what a Public Safety Officer is and how that role differs from that of your standard Police Officer. It just means that each Officer has received cross training in police work, fire fighting and emergency medicine, and can be called upon at any time to exercise one of these disciplines. Honestly, I was shocked that one person could be proficient at all three of these. They carry all of the equipment they need in their patrol cars and will actually change their clothes on the run. But on top of that, some officers also volunteer to train to become members of the SWAT team, the bomb squad, or work K-9 on top of their normal duties.

So let me break down what that actually means for one of these officers on a typical 12-hour shift. They can start their days on road patrol, be called to fight a fire, go back on patrol, receive a call to end a domestic dispute, follow that with a search through a building because an alarm has gone off, and then end their night stopping a bar fight. Then they go home to their wife and kids. Are you getting the picture yet? Can you see why they absolutely need our prayers? These super-human men and women do this day in and day out for the good of our communities; for people who are typically against them, and if they are not against them, they are at best neutral toward law enforcement personnel. How many folks out there are for them, I mean really for them? Personally, I have always been a fan of law enforcement, but my appreciation has grown 100 fold. Will you join me today and pray for the law enforcement officers of your community and our nation? Let’s join our faith to lift them up in prayer so that you and I can “live a quiet and peaceable life,” and that these officers return safely home at the end of their shifts.

Then, I have one final request: Today, if you come across an officer, please take a moment and shake their hand, give them our thanks and let them know that we’re praying for them. It’s the least we can do.

Love to you-

Jeff

Jesus, Can I Have Some Time With You?

2011-05-09T19:04:00.002-04:00

"To whom He also presented Himself alive after His suffering by many infallible proofs, being seen by them during forty days and speaking of the things pertaining to the kingdom of God." Acts 1:3, NKJV

I need to spend more time with Jesus, how about you?

Ever wish you could just run away from the demands, the noise and the busyness that always seems to be swirling around you. I mean come on, our faith needs to be built on something more than attending church. We talk about having a relationship with Jesus, but have we allowed it to become a religion? Are we just going through the motions of Christianity or are we really having a vital, heart to heart, life-altering relationship with Jesus Christ?

On the church calendar we’re in what’s known as “Paschal Time,” which includes the 40-day period between Jesus’ resurrection and His ascension to heaven. Ever wonder why the resurrected Jesus walked around the earth for 40 days after He was raised from the dead?

I’d like to believe it was so that all of us would learn not to look back at who He was, but be continually reminded of who He is. According to Hebrews, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.” (Hebrews 13:8, NKJV) That’s the Jesus I want to know; not the historical Jesus, but the Jesus that’s alive today, the now Jesus – the today Jesus! I want my heart to burn within me like those guys He came across on the Road to Emmaus in Luke 24:13-32. After He was raised from the dead, Jesus joined up with a couple of guys as they were talking about Him, only they didn’t recognize Him. You see they were talking about the Jesus who was…He was a prophet, He was a teacher, He was…only Jesus is a whole lot more than someone who was, He is! He IS a prophet, He IS a teacher, He IS our redeemer and He IS alive.

Later that same day, Jesus opened up the Scriptures and began to explain to these guys who He is, and that the plan has always been for God and man to have their relationship restored. Now here’s the cool part:

“Now it came to pass, as He sat at the table with them, that He took bread, blessed and broke it, and gave it to them. Then their eyes were opened, and they knew Him and He vanished from their sight.” (Luke 24:30-31, NKJV)

That must have totally blown their minds. Can you imagine just sitting there and then realizing that Jesus, who you thought was dead, is sitting across the table from you and wham – He disappears? But I love their response:

“And they said to one another, ‘Did not our heart burn within us while He talked with us on the road, and while He opened the Scriptures to us?’” (Luke 24:32, NKJV)

When was the last time our hearts burned within us as we worshipped, as we prayed, and as we spent time in the Word? If it’s been awhile, it’s safe to say that it’s not God’s fault. Maybe we just haven’t taken the time we should to really focus on the reality of our relationship with the Jesus who IS. He IS real, He IS alive, and He IS here for us. Let’s take a walk with Jesus this weekend and spend some time with Him.

I know He’d like that.

Your Final Call

2011-04-30T10:55:00.002-04:00

Two significant events happened this week that reminded me of how important it is to live life with purpose. The first was the funeral on Tuesday of PSO Eric Zapata, the first police officer ever killed in the line of duty here in Kalamazoo. Officer Zapata had responded to a call from a fellow officer who had been fired upon, and in doing so, lost his life. His death truly reflects the words Jesus shared with us 2,000 years ago, “Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one's life for his friends.” (John 15:13, NKJV) It’s safe to say that Officer Zapata’s death really shook up our community. I’ve been to a fair number of funerals over the years, but I’ve never seen anything like what I saw that day. Before the funeral began there was a processional, for roughly an hour, of uniformed officers from all over the country, and even Canada, who came to pay their respects and pass by the casket.

I’ll never forget the tape they played of Eric’s “Final Call,” in honor of his last day of duty. It went something like this:

“Lincoln Radio can you raise Baker 22 for me,” Lt. Mike McCaw said, followed by the dispatcher’s call, “Radio to 22…Radio to 22…Radio to Baker 22. (No response) Lincoln Two, I am unable to raise Baker 22. The time is 23:28 hours. The date is April 18, 2011.” “Take Baker 22 off the watch,” Lt. McCaw responded. “Baker 22 is off the watch…Kalamazoo Public Safety honors the service and sacrifice of Public Officer Eric Zapata, on his final call; Officer Zapata…rushed bravely toward the sound of gunfire in order to aid a fellow officer. In doing so, Officer Zapata gave the full and final measure of devotion; on behalf of another he made the ultimate sacrifice…the sacrifice of his own life. May his example of selfless courage be an inspiration to each of us, may we find hope in his valor, and may he rest in peace and in glory, in the company of those who have gone before him. Officer Eric Zapata, employee No. 11611, is off duty for the final time at 23:28 hours on Monday, April 18, 2011. Godspeed, Eric.”

Needless to say, there wasn’t a dry eye in the place. We all left that funeral with a greater appreciation of the men and women in law enforcement, the military and the first responders who place their lives on the line every day to keep people like us safe. We thank God for those of you who serve God and us in these ways, and we promise to pray for you even more than we have in the past.

The second event was the death of David Wilkerson, author of the famous book, “The Cross and The Switchblade,” founder of Teen Challenge, and founder of Times Square Church in the heart of Manhattan. Pastor Dave didn’t serve in law enforcement, but he did invest his life in saving the lives of others. He and his wife Gwen were in a head-on crash in Texas on Wednesday and as I write this she remains in critical condition. Please keep her in your prayers today. “The Cross and the Switchblade” is one of the most popular Christian books ever written. The ministry of Teen Challenge remains a powerful tool, used by God, to help change the lives of thousands and thousands of hurting people around the country. Then on top of these two major works, he founded the Times Square church, which now has 8,000 members. I don’t know about you, but I’d say that's a pretty significant work.

Even though they had very different careers, Office Zapata and Pastor Wilkerson both heard the same words that Jesus shared in Matthew 25:21. They are words we all would like to hear when our work here on earth comes to an end, “Well done my good and faithful servant.”

So let me leave you with a few questions. What causes a person to run into danger when their natural response should be to run from it? What causes a person to preach the gospel in the hard places, to folks who don’t want to hear it? Is it because they know their God given purpose and are willing to give their lives to fulfill it? If that’s the case, here is a question for you: Are you giving everything you can to fulfill your life’s purpose? How you answer that question will determine what you hear on the day of your “final call.”

God Bless Officer Eric Zapata, and Pastor David Wilkerson, and may God use how they lived their lives to teach us how to live ours.

Love you-

Jeff

What A Guy Is Looking For In A Girl

2011-04-01T11:01:00.002-04:00

I want to talk to you single girls on what we guys are looking for in a girl – what we like and what we don’t like. Now I’m no expert on this subject, but having been married to my best friend for nearly twenty-five years, and raising two exceptionally gifted, intelligent, beautiful, amazingly gifted girls gives me a little bit of a platform to speak from.

So, let me start by telling you what we’re not looking for.

(1) We’re not looking to be the center of your world. There is nothing more attractive to a guy then knowing that his girl loves Jesus way more than she’ll ever love him. I’m not saying that we’re not looking to be loved; we’re just looking for proper perspective. Because if we ever become the center of your world then both our worlds are going to get way out of whack real quick. Let’s call it a “whack-attack.” Here’s the deal, it’s not our role to be the center of your universe; only Jesus can be that and until He is, you’ll be looking for some yahoo to complete you, and he can’t. Colossians says, “and you are complete in Him, who is the head of all principality and power.” (Colossians 2:10, NKJV)

(2) We’re not looking for someone we can run over. Girls, don’t ever let us dishonor you, or treat you crummy. You are way too valuable for that. Too many of you girls let us guys mistreat you. Hold your ground and when your guy does something or says something that hurts you, don’t unload your frustration on your girlfriends, unload on us. Really, we’re going to get all ticked off at first, but if we really want to have a healthy God honoring relationship with you then in the end we’ll appreciate it. A lot of times we’ll say things, do things that will hurt or offend you that we’re just clueless about. Now I’m not saying that we’re dumb, we’re just not girls. Remember we’re the guys that will punch our best friend in the face one minute and then go play catch the next.

So, what are we looking for in a girl?

(1) We’re looking for someone to accept us for who we are. Listen, God never intended for us to be compared to your dad, your last boyfriend, or even your roommate’s cute brother. We’re all different. So, celebrate with us our strength’s and don’t keep pointing out our weaknesses. And please, please, please, don’t try to change us, leave that up to the One who created us.

(2) We’re looking for someone who likes to do the things we like to do. Sure in any relationship there are compromises, but if your guy likes to fish, it wouldn’t hurt for you to learn to like it too. I love to ride motorcycles, and so it was always fun for me to have Beth ride on the back of my bike. But a few years ago I convinced her to learn to ride a bike herself, and now she has her own Harley. I can’t really explain it, but her effort to learn to do something that I like really means a lot to me, and makes me feel closer to her.

(3) We’re looking for someone who will keep us in check physically. So, you need to know a couple of things about us. First, guys are totally visual. So, when we go out with you, please don’t show us too much. No skin to win, if you get my drift. Also, don’t forget that when it comes to sexual temptations, girls are like crock pots, but boys are like microwaves set on full power. We don’t simmer; we go from zero to a hundred in a matter of seconds, so help us say in check. Now I’m not saying don’t look hot, just not too hot!

(4) We’re looking for someone who likes to have fun. We’re not looking for drama. We get plenty of that at the movies. We’re just looking for someone who enjoys life, doesn’t take life too seriously, and someone who laughs, a lot. The Bible says that laughter is a like medicine. So, you don’t have to worry so much about your hair, just let it down and have some fun.

(5) Finally, we’re looking for someone who loves Jesus and His church. The church is the hope of the world. And any girl that would be an interest to us is going to have to love Jesus as much as we do, and love His church. So, going to church is not an option, it’s a requirement. If we’re ever going to have a solid, healthy relationship we’re going to need to like going to the same church…together. In Psalm 34:3 it says, Oh, magnify the LORD with me, and let us exalt His name together. (Psalm 34:3, NKJV) Get it? Key word here is “together.”

So what’s the bottom line? If we’ll put Jesus in the center of our lives, He’ll help us guys and girls to have God honoring, healthy relationships.

There's No Plan B For The Life Of Faith

2011-03-28T08:48:00.002-04:00

"But what does it say? 'The word is near you, in your mouth and in your heart' (that is, the word of faith which we preach)." Romans 10:8, NKJV

My wife Beth and I have been the senior pastors of Valley Family Church for nearly 20 years. It’s been a joy to bring the message of Jesus Christ to so many people over the years. To see people grasp the reality of forgiveness of sins and eternal life through Jesus Christ for the first time is so cool. And then we get to watch them launch out into this wonderful adventure of a life, built upon their faith in God and His Word. We’re often asked if we’re one of those “word of faith” churches – as if there was another option? If you know of one, please pass it along. Here in Romans, the Apostle Paul called the message that turned his life 180 degrees around, the “word of faith.” That was what he preached everywhere he could, regardless of his circumstances, because he knew there was no “Plan B.”

What is the word of faith? Well, it’s simply learning to take God at His Word. Does God really care how we live our life? He sure does, because in Hebrews 11:6, He says, “But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.”

Notice that this verse doesn’t say it’s “unlikely” to please God without faith. It actually says it is impossible! Now don’t miss this, because it’s huge: the only way you and I can please God is to live our lives in the way that He originally designed for us, by faith. So how do we do that? How do we get faith?

Well, according to Romans 10:17 faith only comes one way. It says, “So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the Word of God.” In other words, faith isn’t some mystical or magical thing. It’s very tangible and it only comes one way, through God’s Word. Remember what Paul said that he preached? He said he preached the “Word” of faith. He wasn’t preaching his ideas, or his experiences, or even his theories for living. He was simply preaching the Word of God, and when he did, faith came to those who heard him.

So if faith comes by hearing, how do we know when it arrives? Again, according to Romans 10:8, the word of faith will show up in two places. It shows up in your mouth, and in your heart. You’ll hear yourself talking differently. You’ll catch yourself thinking differently. There will be a confidence and a trust that comes from the inside of you that says, “I believe God’s Word, more than I believe in these circumstances that I’m facing staying the same.”

What scriptures are you hearing and getting into your mouth and heart? Are you just blindly trusting God or are there specific verses that you’re making your stand upon? Our faith and trust can only be founded on the Word of God. So grab your Bible today and let God’s Word, His promises, speak faith into your life, and hold on because change is coming. There is no “Plan B.”

Say It: “Father, I want to live my life in a way that pleases You. I believe You, I believe Your Word and believe that Your promises are bigger than any circumstances I may face. I will put Your Word in my mouth and in my heart. I will speak Your Word over my life, my family, my business and my circumstances. I will see Your Word begin to mold and shape my life. Your Word is changing me, today! In Jesus’ Name. Amen.”

No Risk No Reward

2011-02-19T11:28:00.002-05:00

"Now in the fourth watch of the night Jesus went to them, walking on the sea. And when the disciples saw Him walking on the sea, they were troubled, saying, 'It is a ghost!' And they cried out for fear. But immediately Jesus spoke to them, saying, 'Be of good cheer! It is I; do not be afraid.' And Peter answered Him and said, 'Lord, if it is You, command me to come to You on the water.' So He said, 'Come.'" Matthew 14:25-29, NKJV

They were in the middle of the lake in the middle of the night, and they came face to face with a choice. They could either respond to this situation in fear, or by faith. I wish I could tell you that the life of faith carries no risk to it. But that would be wrong; because frankly, living a life of faith is a huge risk. The Apostle Paul said if Jesus didn’t really rise from the dead, then we as believers are living a miserable lie. (1 Corinthians 15:12-19, NLT) But here’s the good news: Jesus did rise from the dead! Which means we get to live this wonderful life of faith. But, it is important to note that it is a life that includes taking a risk from time to time.

You see it would have been much easier for them to not take a risk and stay in the boat, letting fear determine their next move. But Peter did something that separated him from the other disciples. He chose to responded by faith rather than fear, and said, Jesus if that’s really You then I’m willing to do the impossible. I mean really, when was the last time you saw someone walking on water, other than to go ice fishing?

But there is an important ingredient to this story. It is what’s necessary to receive the reward for taking a risk – and that is, to have a word from God. Did you notice that Peter didn’t move until he had a word from Jesus? I’m confident that if Jesus hadn’t answered Peter that he wouldn’t have stepped out of that boat. You see Peter did more than just walk on water – he was actually walking on the word of Jesus. Think about it. It wasn’t a paragraph, or even a sentence – just one word, “come.” Peter believed that word, mixed it with his faith, and then took a risk leaving the safety of the boat. His super-sized risk was rewarded by a super-sized reward – He actually walked on water.

What about you? What has God been saying to you lately? Has Jesus been walking around the boat of your life, waiting for you to call out to Him? What reward is out there for you to risk it all for? Remember, without a risk there is no reward.

Set Your Sights

2011-02-10T22:35:00.001-05:00

3 John 2 “Beloved I pray that you may prospers in all things and be in health, just as your souls prospers.”

When I was pretty young, my dad had a little fishing boat with one of those small motors with a control handle on it that powered us out to our favorite fishing hole. I’ll never forget the day when my dad told me that it was time to learn how to handle that big boy myself. So he got up front, and once I pulled the engine to life he taught me a principle that would serve me for the rest of my life. He said, “Son, I want you to pick a point out there on the horizon, and keep your sights on it. Because the winds and current will always fight against your ability to get to where you want go. So set your sight, and steer toward it.” It’s the nautical version of the old principle of, you hit what you are aiming at.

So what have you been setting your sights on? What are you aiming at? Because chances are, that if you can’t answer that question, either you’ve got your sights set on the wrong thing. Or if you don’t have it set on anything, and if that’s the case, then there is a good chance that your life may be adrift.

Ever wonder what God wants you to set your sights on? He wants us to set our sights on being prosperous. Now before you think I’m just talking about financial prosperity you’ve got to keep reading. The word “prospers” here is a compound word that paints the picture of having a successful journey. Who doesn’t want to have a successful journey, no matter where they are going, or what they are doing? We all do, we all want to reach our goals in life, both big and small. But what I like about this verse is that it gives us permission to have a well-balanced journey. Notice John’s prayer for us, is that we would prosper, that our health would be good, just as our soul prospered. Sounds to me like he is talking about having a prosperous journey through life—spirit, soul and body.

In other words, you don’t have to work yourself to death to be a success. You don’t have to sacrifice your marriage or your kids to prosper in you work. You truly can have it all, God’s way. So, the million-dollar question is where are we to set our sights. Well the answer to that is found in Matthew 6:33, “But seek first the kingdom of God, and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” The answer is simple; we’re to keep our eyes on Jesus. When our eyes are on Him we can face the biggest storms and the strongest currents, and we can have a prosperous journey. A journey that’s focused on Him and not on things.

Beth and I are taking a couple of days to really seek God’s direction and pray, think, and talk about the next 20 years of our lives. We’re asking the Lord for what HE want us to focus on, not what we want, but what does HE want. It’s fun, it’s challenging, and in the meantime it’s super exciting to know that when we push off the shore that, with God’s help that we can successfully reaching our goals. Would you join us, take some time and really seek after the Lord and ask Him to help you to see where you should set your sights? Then keep your eyes on your target, and with God’s help you’ll get there!

Make Today Count!

2011-02-03T22:13:00.002-05:00

“So be careful how you live. Don’t live like fools, but like those who are wise. Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days.” Ephesians 5:15-16 NLT

Did you know that today is a gift from God? Think about it, yesterday could have been your last day here on earth. But you made it to another day, so what are you going to do with it? See it like it’s no big deal, just another day—or how about seeing today with a fresh pair of eyes? We rarely see things that we aren’t looking for. So, I vote that we choose to see today as God sees it, a day that is full of opportunity and potential. Because what we do with our days, and our time defines who we are.

Days are measured by time, 24 hours to be exact, and the clock is always ticking. And whether we like it or not, there is nothing we can do to stop it. Benjamin Franklin said that “time is the stuff life is made of.” I love that quote, because time is our most valuable possession, and what we do with it is indeed, the stuff life is made of. Abraham Lincoln said, “And in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.” But isn’t it true that our years are just a collection of days? So, the only way to make our years count is to make sure that we make each and every day count by living with a real sense of purpose, and use our time wisely.

Yesterday ended last night, so we’ve got a fresh start, it’s called today. So, keep your eyes looking ahead, not behind. Learn from the mistakes of yesterday, and move on. Briefly celebrate yesterday’s victories, but don’t stay there. With the help of the Holy Spirit look for the opportunities that today presents. You see too many people are either trapped by their pasts, or they are looking too far into the future and they forget the importance of living for today. So, Carpe Diem, seize the day and live it, really live it. Look at the things that are important to you, and then build your day around them. Focus on what’s important, on what will ultimately define you.

What project do you need to finish? What phone call do you need to make? What meeting do you need to schedule? What risk do you need to take? What opportunity is out there for you? Don’t waste another day; make the most of this one, make today count.

Be Still

2011-01-28T07:33:00.002-05:00

"...meditate within your heart on your bed, and be still." Psalm 4:4

How are you doing? Really, how are you? I know that when people ask us that question we usually give a short and pretty shallow answer like, “Oh I’m good, how are you?” Lately I’ve caught myself answering too many times with, “busy.” That is so wrong on so many levels! I can’t stand the idea of describing my life like that. But, doesn’t it seem like our lives are often filled with too much activity, and at times, too much noise? Because if the truth be known, the ultimate danger zone is when we’ve got too much going on, mixed with too much noise, leaving no room for God.

The Bible teaches us that there are many voices in the world and none without significance. We have a lot of voices saying a lot of different things; but the most important voice to hear is God’s. So, we need to make sure that we do whatever it takes to slow down and listen. That’s why I love this verse, because it paints a great picture of the importance of finding those moments where we can quiet down and hear from God.

Psalm 46:10 says something similar, “Be still, and know that I am God….” Did you know that God is always speaking to us? The problem is that we’re either too busy, or we have too much noise going on to be able to hear from Him. So, here is what I propose we do, let’s carve out a little time just to get quiet – I mean really quiet – don’t talk, don’t listen to music, cut out all background noise and just get with God, and listen. Grab your Bible and read it, pray a little, worship a little – but most of all, stay still and see what God says to your heart. I’d love to hear what God tells you, so please send me a note.

Say Good Things

2011-01-21T14:08:00.002-05:00

“Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.” Ephesians 4:29 KJV

I have to tell you, I love this verse. It’s one of the first verses I memorized as a young Christian. It holds two wonderful keys for how we should talk to people, and about people. The first is that our words should be edifying. To edify, literally means “to build up”, which tells us that our words can either build people up or tear them down. The second key is that God has given our words the ability to minister His grace into the lives of others. Too many of us are loose with our words and we say things that neither build up nor minister grace. Sometimes they are quite the opposite.

We have tradition at our church where we throw a little bagel party when someone transitions from our staff. We had one of those parties yesterday morning for three of our staff members who, for different reasons felt their time on staff had come to an end. I think the shortest tenure was 3 years, so these are folks we’ve gotten to know pretty well. We’ve faced some challenges together, we’ve seen some victories, and we’ve even shared a few disappointments. They are more than just our co-workers—they are our friends.

So, we go around the room and we let those who are leaving know how special they are to us and to the Lord. We share a lot of laughs, but usually a lot more tears. It’s always such a huge blessing to them and to us, because it’s real, it’s heartfelt and it’s totally a God thing. We always leave thinking that we should do this more often. Not the part of having folks leave, but the part of being encouraging to one another, while we’re still working together.

You know, there is nothing like the present. Let’s do something wild today! Why don’t you tell that person you see at the drive up window every morning that you love how they smile and how much you appreciate them coming to work super early just to have that coffee ready for you when you swing by on the way to work. Tell your receptionist that you appreciate the way they answer the phones and treat your customers with such respect. How about taking some time today to tell your co-workers two or three things that really cause them stand out to you. It’s not too late. You’ll be amazed by the power that a positive encouraging word will bring. Your words can build up and they can minister grace, so go for it, let ‘em fly!

With my love-

Jeff

Doubly Blessed With Life

2011-01-01T17:39:00.001-05:00

"Instead of your shame you shall have double honor, and instead of confusion they shall rejoice in their portion. Therefore in their land they shall possess double: Everlasting joy shall be theirs." Isaiah 61:7

First of all, we would like to wish all of our friends a very Happy New Year; may this be your very best year ever!

I wanted to write a special devo today to all of you ex-party-ers out there. If you were anything like me before meeting Jesus, then you know what New Year's Eve meant to us. It was party till you puked and then party some more until you got in some sort of trouble. Well, I've got some good news for you; this verse is for us.

Because we've made Jesus Lord of our lives, we no longer have to have wake up New Year's Day, lying there in bed or on the couch—as the foggy confusion of the night before begins to clear up, realizing that once again we've blown it and have acted like idiots. It's that moment when the temporary joy of the night before is replaced by an overwhelming sense of shame of your behavior, and instead of starting out the new year with confidence and excitement—you just feel miserable about yourself. Then, of course, you check your wallet and realize that once again you must have emptied it buying rounds of drinks for all of your new "so-called" friends. So you begin the year by feeling crummy, ashamed, hung over, and broke…wow, what fun, huh? You getting the picture, or am I just talking to myself?

But then Jesus came into our lives…the One who forgives us and changes us from the inside out. I am so thankful that the old life is long gone and not just gone, but replaced by the real life, a life of double. Remember, He's the one who said in John 10:10, "…I have come that you might have life and it MORE abundantly." That sounds like double dipping into life to me. Here in Isaiah He promises us that our shame is replaced with double honor, that our confusion is replaced with double peace, that our lack is replaced by double possessions, and that our sadness is replaced with double joy.

Now that's something we can celebrate every day, and not just once a year. So, thank You, Jesus, for loving us enough to lay down Your life so that we could experience the life of double!

"Father, we thank You for helping us to see the kind of life You have for us. The life of double—double honor, double peace, double possessions, and double joy. I choose to speak this over my life, my family, my work, my church, my friends, over every area of my life. I call 2011 my year of double! In Jesus' Name. Amen."

Vision Collision

2010-12-26T19:29:00.002-05:00

"'For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,' says the Lord, 'thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.'" Jeremiah 29:11

Did you know that you're on God's mind today? Did you know that you're on His mind every day? The reason is simple. You're on His mind because He has a plan for your life.

This verse calls His "vision" for you His "thoughts." So, what kind of thoughts or visions does God have for us? According to this verse, they are thoughts of peace, and not of evil—a vision of a bright future, full of hope for every one of us. No one is exempt; God has a vision for every person who ever walked on the earth. But all too often we get in the way and come up with our own thoughts, our own visions, our own plans and we completely mess things up.

A "vision collision" is what happens when a person runs smack dab into the vision that God has for their lives. Unfortunately, many of us suffer from limited vision that's either defined by our circumstances, by our family and friends, or even by our past failures. But be encouraged today, because the Bible has tons of examples of what can happen when someone has a "vision collision."

David saw himself as the youngest member of his family, and least likely to succeed. His brothers saw him as a shepherd boy—but God saw him as the giant-killing king of Israel!

Gideon saw himself as a weakling and a coward—but God saw him as a mighty man of valor!

Moses saw himself as the stuttering caretaker of his father-in-law's sheep—but God saw him as an articulate deliverer of His people!

Peter saw himself as an emotionally unstable fisherman—but God saw him as rock, and a fisher of men!

Paul saw himself as the persecutor of the church--but God saw him as its protector!

The shepherds saw a baby in a manger—but God saw the Savior of the world!

So, what does God see when He thinks of you? He sees peace, not evil—and a future full of possibilities. So, isn't it time for you to replace the vision that you had for your life, and head out on the road of faith? Get serious and seek God with all your heart, and ask Him for your very own "vision collision."

What To Do When Your Family Is Not Perfect

2010-12-18T11:41:00.002-05:00

"Then the LORD said to Cain, 'Where is Abel your brother?' He said, 'I do not know. Am I my brother's keeper?'" Genesis 4:9

Christmas is fast approaching and we're all probably getting ready for one—or more—of those traditional, annual holiday family gatherings. If we're honest, sometimes these family gatherings are clearly more of a curse than a blessing.

Have you ever experienced any conflicts or issues with your family that blow up over the holidays? Well, join the club! Apparently, even the first siblings on the earth couldn't get along very well. In this verse, God is asking Cain where his brother was, even though He knew that Cain had murdered Abel. Now, I doubt that any of us have actually murdered another member of our family...although we may have felt like it a time or two.

The holidays can bring out the best in us, but—if we're not careful—they can also bring out the worst in us. Can anyone say "amen" to that? When that happens, it can make the holidays miserable for everyone.

I remember a saying one of our Bible school instructors used to tell us: "To be fore-warned is to be forearmed." So, what can we do to proactively approach our time together with family and do more than just get along but actually enjoy it? Do you know what the secret is? It's learning to abide in the light of God's love.

"He who loves his brother abides in the light, and there is no cause for stumbling in him." (1 John 2:10)

You see, love is a choice. Let's choose to love our families this holiday season. As we learn to abide in the light of God's love, we're empowered to love our brothers, our sisters, our weird aunts or uncles, and even our in-laws. When we love like this, nothing can cause us to stumble.

"And above all things have fervent love for one another, for 'love will cover a multitude of sins.'" (1 Peter 4:8)

It's amazing what a little love will do to help us avoid conflict. Love helps us to cover things that otherwise might bug us, or get us all worked up. When something is covered up, we don't see it. So may this year's Christmas get-together be our best ever as we choose to love our families with the same love that God has for us!

"Father, I thank You for my family. Even though none of us is perfect, I choose to love them in spite of my family's imperfections. I pray that I can be a vessel of Your unconditional love for every member of my family as I abide in Your light. In Jesus' Name. Amen."

You've Got A Gift So Use It!

2010-12-05T16:12:00.001-05:00

"For as we have many members in one body, but all the members do not have the same function, so we, being many, are one body in Christ, and individually members of one another. Having then gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, let us prophesy in proportion to our faith; or ministry, let us use it in our ministering…."
Romans 12:4-7

Yesterday we shared a meal, and showed a little appreciation to some of our volunteers here at our church. We shared this scripture and talked about God's master plan to connect us together through our work for Him. This verse reminds us that although there are many members in the Body of Christ—and even many members here in our local church—we are all unique. Did you know that there is no one on the planet just like you? You are one of a kind, and the really cool news is that God Himself has graced us each with gifts that are different, yet they complement one another.

Did you notice near the end of this passage that it encourages us to "use" the gifts that we've been given? You see, we get to tap into the grace of God every time we choose to use our gifts. Just think about that, you get the opportunity to connect with the grace of God every time put those gifts He has given you into action and serve others. But don't ever forget, those gifts that God has graced us with are not for us, but for others.

But what about the people who never use their gifts? They never serve, they never reach out to others, and they only live for themselves. And, there are a lot of people in this category. Well, the sad news is that they miss out on experiencing all that God has in store for them. He's the One who gives the grace, He's the One who gives the gifts, but we're the ones who are supposed to use them, and if we don't…we lose, and the people around us lose. In First Peter 4:10, we're encouraged to share what God has given us:

"As each one has received a gift, minister it to one another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God."

So, what are you doing today to use the gifts that God has given to you? Don't let your gift sit dormant. I bet you already know what you're gifted to do, so just do it. Put your gift, whatever it may be, into practice; begin to rely on the grace of God working through you to make a positive difference to the people around you. So, by faith, use your gifts to the glory of God, and let Him shine through you today.

Peace-

Jeff

A Special Thanks to Pastors

2010-10-12T13:54:00.002-04:00

"And I will give you pastors according to Mine heart, which shall feed you with knowledge and understanding."
Jeremiah 3:15 KJV

Did you know that October is Pastor Appreciation Month? We were really blessed to spend the first Sunday of this special month at Victory Christian Center in Rancho Mirage, California with two dear friends and pastors, Jeff and Melissa Walker. We love to visit their church when we're in the Palm Springs area, because we so love to hear their hearts and see their love for their people. Being with the Walkers got me thinking about the pastors who have made a significant difference in my life. So, bear with me as I give them a little appreciation.

The first is Pastor Chuck Swindoll who is the senior pastor of Stonebriar Community Church in Frisco, TX. Now, Pastor Chuck doesn't know me from Adam, and in fact, we've never met. But, because of his daily national radio program, he served as my first pastor. You see, I didn't get saved in church, so I didn't know the value of attending church and having a pastor. I would listen to Pastor Chuck on the radio in my car as I traveled around Western Michigan. What an outstanding teacher of the Word of God! Man, I can remember like yesterday how God would use him to make the Word alive and relevant to my life in so many ways. I owe a lot to him. You see, because of him, I developed a hunger and desire deep within my heart to someday do the same for others. Thanks, Pastor Chuck—if I don't meet you here on earth, I'll see you someday in heaven and give you a huge hug!

The second is Pastor Dave Williams, who is the senior pastor at Mount Hope Church in our hometown of Lansing, Michigan. When I finally realized my need to have a pastor, I began to attend Mount Hope. Pastor Dave is a gifted communicator in so many ways, and his love for Jesus and the Word is contagious. Another outstanding attribute about Pastor Dave is his love for lost people. Not only is he an incredible communicator, he is a gifted evangelist. I'll never forget the night that he taught on the importance of financial planning, and how you needed the right kind of insurance, and then gave a simple altar call...and tons of people gave their lives to Jesus. It was amazing to watch God use him that way, and it helped me to have a heart to always connect with lost people. Thanks, Pastor Dave—because of you and your love for Jesus and His lost sheep, we're doing the same thing in Kalamazoo.

The third pastor in my life is Pastor Kenneth Hagin, Jr., who, along with his wife, Lynnette, pastor Rhema Bible Church in Broken Arrow, OK. He'll never know the special significance that a message he preached called, "A Place Called There" had in my life. It was 25 years ago and I was in business but felt a call to leave that world and pursue a life of ministry. Well, I can tell you, I must have listened to that message 100 times. He spoke on the importance of finding your current "there" and how God has provision for everything you would need..."there." He talked about how some folks miss all that God has for them because they get so comfortable in their "here" that they won't go "there." Well needless to say, his message helped to give me the faith to get "there" and attend their Bible School and for Pastor Hagin to be my pastor for all these years. Thank you, Pastor Ken and Lynette—for all you have done for me—and so many others who are making a huge difference around the world. We cannot be defeated and we will not quit!

Finally, there is Pastor Jeff Arnett, who is the senior pastor of Thornapple Valley Church in Hastings, Michigan. It's a long story, but when Beth and I moved back to Michigan to start a church, things didn't go the way we had expected, and we found ourselves struggling to figure out what to do with our lives. We were unsure of who we were and what God was calling us to do, and then we visited Jeff's church. I will never forget how God used Jeff to show me what was in my heart. I saw how Jeff loved God and loved His people, and realized that was also inside of me. It was one of those "a picture paints a thousand words" deals. I actually saw what I couldn't explain with words, and from that point on, my life has never been the same. Thank you, Pastor Jeff—for just being who God called you to be and for helping me to see who God called me to be.

So, who are those pastors in your life who have made a difference for you? When was the last time you took the time to drop them a note, give them a call, or just say a prayer for them? These are the men and women who God gave you to show you His heart and His love for you. A little appreciation would go a long way to encourage them.

Thank you Lord for giving us Pastors after Your own heart.

Peace-

Jeff

So, who are you?

2010-10-02T16:15:00.003-04:00

"For in Him we live and move and have our being…." Acts 17:28a

I wonder if the most important question any of us can ever ask ourselves is, "Who am I?"

But it also seems like it's one of those questions that's always evolving. When we were younger, that question was easy; we would simply answer, "I'm a boy," or "I'm a girl." That was it, simple and easy to understand, and even easier to be. Then, before you knew it, we were teenagers and all those crazy hormones started kicking in and the struggle to describe who we are began. So...are we kids, or are we adults...or maybe we're just kids in adult bodies? Who are we?

"I'm a(n) _______ (fill in the blank)." I'm an...athlete, a student, a student athlete, a teacher, a student teacher, a graduate, a graduate assistant, a professor, employee, employer, trainee, intern, apprentice, journeyman...a man, woman, boyfriend, girlfriend, friend, fiancé, husband, wife, divorceé, cancer survivor, widow, mom, dad, stepmom, stepdad, stepbrother, stepsister, grandma, grandpa, veteran...a minister, a former such-and-such." Man, my head is spinning; how about yours?

You see, life happens, and it's a moving target, which means that at any time we can find ourselves holding several of these positions at once. And because of that, it's possible to lose focus and our ability to be very good at any one of these roles. So, how do we find stability in our constantly changing worlds? There's only One Way, and it's not found in us, but in Jesus Christ.

"Therefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine, and does them, I will liken him to a wise man who built his house on a rock." (Matthew 7:24)

He is the Rock described here in this verse, and if we're wise, we'll build our lives on Him and His Word. He is the only One who can bring a solid and steady foundation to our lives if we choose to place our identity solely upon Him. Now, I'm not saying that we just add the word "Christian" as a prefix to the above titles—that just seems so cheesy and phony. No, what I'm saying is that our identities should never, and I mean never be in what we do or in a role we play. The foundation of our identities should simply be that we're followers of Jesus Christ. You see, we've surrendered our lives to Him, which means that we can't reflect His light if we're always shining the light on ourselves. We can't be a reflection of Him, if we're always looking at ourselves in the mirror. It's sort of like what John the Baptist said about Jesus: "He must increase and I must decrease." (John 3:30)

So who are you? You are a child of God, the apple of His eye; and on top of that, you were fearfully and wonderfully made. So, let's choose to live today from the foundation of the unchanging position we hold every day: a follower of Jesus Christ, a child of God, a sold-out believer in the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords...the Author and the Finisher of our Faith.

Peace-

Jeff

Thank God For Teachers

2010-09-24T12:17:00.003-04:00

"Train up a child on the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." Proverbs 22:6

One morning last month I had the privilege of bringing a word of encouragement to the whole staff of the Kalamazoo Christian School Association during one of their preparation days for the new school year. Well, ever since then, I've been thinking about the value teachers play in our lives. They play such an important role in shaping our lives, and their efforts can last a lifetime.

Personally, I'll be forever grateful to Dale Hanson who was my senior high graphics arts teacher. He saw something in me, and I'm not even sure what it was. But God used him to help me believe in myself when I was lost and out of focus. The sad thing is, I never did thank him. Do you have similar story? I bet all of us can remember a teacher who took the time to make us feel special, or helped to point us in the right direction.

So I just want to give a shout out to all you teachers out there. Whether you're teaching in a public, private, parochial or Christian school—or even in the home—your work is valuable; it's important, and even though at times it may not look like it, you are making a difference.

I would like to particularly thank the teachers at Kalamazoo Christian School who have helped our kids in so many ways. They describe Christian education as a stool that has three legs: church, home and school. We couldn't agree more. Beth and I are forever grateful for the solid Christian worldview that our kids received there, and hold onto today. As pastors, we did our best to model our values and our faith at home and at the church. But having the kids attend a school that reinforced our faith in Jesus Christ was huge for them and us. Even though it cost a bundle to send them to a private school, it was worth every dime.

But here's the other benefit from that experience. Attending a Christian school helped our kids decide to attend a Christian college. Our daughter, Meghan, graduated last May from Cornerstone University in Grand Rapids. Our daughter, Annie, and son, Luke, both attend Spring Arbor University near Jackson. Both are excellent schools, both helping students maintain a Christian worldview as they continue their educations. I don't have to tell you that life at a secular college is quite a bit different than at a Christian college. The other night we went down to Spring Arbor to watch Annie play volleyball and after the game, both Annie and Luke were going to go to a worship service at 10:00pm with Ron Kopicko, the school chaplain. Given the choice of seeing your kids head to a worship night rather than out to the club would make any parent appreciate the place.

So, here's to you, teachers, wherever you are. We appreciate your hearts to help our kids and for making such a positive difference in this world!

In Him-

Jeff

Get Over Yourself

2010-09-18T15:57:00.002-04:00

"For I say, through the grace given to me, to everyone who is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think soberly, as God has dealt to each one a measure of faith." Romans 12:3

Have you ever had your feelings hurt, been offended because you weren't treated fairly, or blew your stack because things didn’t go the way you thought they should? Well, just get over yourself. I hate to break the news to you, but the world does not spin around you and there are something close to 7 billion others of us living here on “Planet You.” Now don’t stop reading, because from time to time, we all find ourselves on the same boat; you know the one, the “SS ME.”

But this verse gives all of us some hope. It tells us that we can actually tap into the grace of God and begin to see ourselves differently. God is reminding us that we shouldn’t see ourselves more highly than we should, but to think of ourselves “soberly”; no better or worse than anyone else.

I want to share with you three simple truths that will help you do this:

(1) Get Low and Stay Low

Philippians 2:3 Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.

Get the picture? We’re not to do anything out of ambition, conceit, or pride, and notice it doesn’t say to look at others as equal, but better than us. Wow, honestly when was the last time we did this, and placed others before ourselves?

(2) Be Others Focused

Philippians 2:4 Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.

Later on in this same chapter, the Apostle Paul tells the church at Philippi that of all the leaders he’d been training, that only one guy, Timothy, would naturally care for their state, because all sought their own.

So maybe we should take a little time and help those around with things that are important to them first, before we look at our own interests.

(3) Be Servant of All

Mark 9:35 And He sat down, called the twelve, and said to them, "If anyone desires to be first, he shall be last of all and servant of all.”

Jesus’ disciples had been arguing about where there would fit on the ministry flow chart. They were fighting among themselves on who would be the greatest! Can you imagine how dumb that conversation must have sounded? But Jesus reminded them, as He is reminding us today that if we want to be great, then we must choose to become servant of all. And by the way, the last time I did a word search on the definition of all, it came back meaning all. In other words, we don’t get a chance to pick and choose who we serve, we should just serve everyone.

What do you think? Willing to try it for a day? What if all of us decided to purposely serve EVERYONE we come in contact today. How much would our world change? We’d love to hear how it went, let us know.

Peace-

Jeff

Things I Meant To Tell You Before You Left

2010-09-10T14:43:00.006-04:00

Proverbs 1:8 “My son, hear the instruction of your father, and do not forsake the law of your mother.”

This is on open letter to our son Luke. We moved him to Spring Arbor University to begin his freshman year on Monday. If you’ve gone through this then you can totally relate to the emotions a parent goes through at a time like this. If you haven’t, then let me warn you, it’s horrible. There I was crying like a baby, knowing all the while that Luke was smack dab in the center of God’s will for his life, but still not wanting to let him go. As we drove away, I thought of a million things I meant to tell him about life. So, I thought maybe I could share a few of them with you:

(1) Do you remember all those bedtime stories I made up about “super boy”, the kid in the neighborhood who always rescued the other kids when they were in trouble, and then always ended the story by asking, “do you know who super boy really is?” and you would smile, point to yourself and answer “Luke”? I meant to tell you that I did that because I wanted you to grow up with the confidence that you had what it takes to help people who are in need. I can see that now in you as you reach out to your friends who need a word of encouragement or just a little help in life, you're there for them.

(2) Do you remember the time we laid down in the driveway to face the wind and the thunderstorm that scared the snot out of you? I meant to tell you that I did that because I wanted you to learn to face your fears. Because no matter how old we get, things come up in life that scare us and we need to learn to face them just like we did with that storm. Now I can see that you’re a guy that doesn’t scare easy and that you have a strength and confidence that comes through everything you do.

(3) Do you remember when you joined the Rocket Football Team and thought that first side-ache was terminal and wanted to quit? I meant to tell you that the reason I wouldn’t let you quit is that if you were ever going to be a winner in life then you would have to learn to push through, and press on, when things get tough. That every successful person I know has had to learn how to do the “hard things." I can see that in you as you’ve faced the challenges of learning to shoot and edit videos, create your own website, and become a worship leader. Aren’t you glad you didn’t quit that dumb football team?

(4) Do you remember all those mornings after our time at “big daddy’s bistro” that I drove you to middle school and you slept the whole way? I meant to tell you that I didn’t mind getting up early to make you breakfast and then drive you to school because I loved to spend time with you. I wanted you to know that your Heavenly Father is the same way. He just loves spending time with you too. I can see that today as you make your personal devotion time with God a real priority in your life. I love seeing how genuine your relationship with Jesus is and how much He has helped shape your life.

(5) Finally, do you remember the million times we butted heads on issues? How I seemed to hold you to a higher standard then your sisters, or even your friends? I meant to tell you that I wasn’t trying to be hard on you, but was just trying to help you become the man God created you to be. So, when those seemingly little things became big things it’s only because every decision we make in life has consequences, and consequences matter. But I’ve watched you over the last few years make some really great choices and decisions in your life.

Well that’s all there’s room for. Just know this Luke, even though the season has changed and you’ve gone off to college I’ll always be your dad, and you’ll always be my super boy. I love you son!

Thanks everybody for letting me share this with you.

With love-

Jeff

Heirs Together

2010-09-01T07:51:00.010-04:00

Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered. 1 Peter 3:17

There are two parts of this scripture that are worth taking some time to drill down on. The first is this idea of living with your spouse “with understanding” as a way of honoring one another. Which means that it’s possible that we could be married for years but really never take the time to understand each other. If husbands and wives are ever going to understand each other than we need to take time to have honest, God honoring communication.

The other day I came across 10 questions that I had ask my wife to answer for me about 8 years ago to help me understand her better. According to this verse if we can learn to understand each other we get to partake in the second part and become “heirs together of the grace of life.” In simple terms, this just means that we can expect God’s grace to rest upon our lives and marriage. I don’t know how it is for you, but the more of God’s grace I get to tap into the better!

So, these questions are not original with me, and frankly I just don’t remember where I got them. So, if you’re reading this and think, “hey, I’m the author of those questions”, well let me apologize. I don’t mean to plagiarize you, I just forgot the source, so please don’t sue me. Here they are:

(1) Is there anything I could do to cause you to feel more loved

(2) Is there anything I can do that would give you the confidence that I respect you and the desires of your heart?

(3) Is there anything I need to do that would cause you to feel more secure?

(4) Is there anything I can do that would indicate that I hear and understand your heart?

(5) Is there anything further I need to do to cause you to have an even greater confidence regarding our future direction?

(6) Is there any attribute you would like for me to develop or strengthen?

(7) Is there any attribute you would like me to help YOU develop in yourself, even if it’s only by praying for you?

(8) What achievement in my life would bring you the greatest joy?

(9) What can I do to indicate to you my desire to be more like Jesus?

(10) What mutual goal, or goals would you like to see us accomplish together?

May I suggest that you share these questions with your spouse and see how you can understand each other better? It may just result in you both becoming, “the heirs together of the grace of life.” May God help you take your marriage and your life to a whole new level!

Peace-

Jeff

2010-08-18T21:57:00.002-04:00

On Monday we moved our daughter Annie down to college for the start of her junior year. Annie’s a great kid, and she’s doing fantastic in college. She’s a wonderful student, a great athlete and leader on her volleyball team. So we found ourselves giving her one of those mom and dad pep talks. Really what we were doing is what Jesus often did with His disciples as He challenged them to look beyond what they saw with their natural eyes. He wanted them to look beyond this natural field of wheat, and see a world that needed to hear the Good News.

Do you not say, 'There are still four months and then comes the harvest'? Behold, I say to you, lift up your eyes and look at the fields, for they are already white for harvest! John 4:35

It’s what we were doing with Annie as we talked about what this year could look like. We were trying to help her paint a picture of what this next year could look like. God reminds us that people without vision perish, or we could say, they end up living below God’s best because they lost their vision for what life could be like. It’s too bad, but people often limit themselves to their natural vision, but God has so much more for us. Our hope was to help Annie see that a good year could be transformed into a great year by looking to set bigger goals for herself and her team.

Vision—Biblical vision is not what you see with your natural eyes, but what you see with the eyes of your heart. It’s not what “is”, it’s what “could be”. He wants us to use our faith and look beyond the natural fields in our life, and grasp the reality of what is possible.

Are you living below God’s best for your life? What do you see? Is it time to “lift up your eyes” and see beyond your circumstances? Maybe it’s time to looks beyond your present disappointments, your present heartaches, or maybe even your present position at work. So lift up your eyes, what do you see with the eyes of your heart? Begin to paint a new picture for your life. Is it a picture of a healthy marriage, and happy and blessed family, is it a new job or a brand new course in life? It’s up to you, will you do it today, will you take some time with God and “lift up your eyes” with Him. Remember, He said, what’s impossible with man IS possible with God, so lift up your eyes and dream big!

Meghan

2010-07-22T11:50:00.004-04:00

In the third chapter of Ephesians it talks about really grasping how much God loves us. There's a phrase in the Amplified that I just love, it goes something like this. "...that we would come to know practically, through experience the love of God."

Our oldest daughter Meghan graduated from college this May and is heading off to Bible School here in a couple of weeks. It’s been a time of reflection for me as I’ve tried to put my mind around the last 22 years since Meghan was born into our family. My goal as a dad was a pretty simple, yet at the same time incredibly important. You see my goal has always been to love Meghan like God loves Meghan so that as she grew up she would know, practically through experience, the love that her Father God has for her, and even more, that He approved of her, and was proud of her.

Words can’t accurately express how proud I am of our little girl. She is just so special to Beth and I and we are so grateful for the role she has played in setting a great example to her sister and brothers. She’s smart, she’s gorgeous, she’s got a tender heart for people, and a genuine desire to make her life mean something for God, and I don’t doubt that she will.

Don’t ever underestimate the importance of feeling loved and being accepted will do for someone. It’s what allows them the freedom to explore who they are without feeling like there is a critical eye on them. There’s a strength that comes to all of us when we know, practically through experience, that the people who are the most important to us are on our side through thick and thin. They are there to cheer us on win or lose. You see that’s what God does for us. He made you and I to succeed in life, and He’s always there cheering us on to our next accomplishment.

I can hardly think about the 22 years with our Meghan without tears forming in my eyes. She’ll tell you that’s pretty common with her dad. I just hope that my little “tenderheart”…that’s what I called her, knows that her dad is extremely proud of her and very thankful that God brought her into our lives. We are so looking forward to seeing what God has in store for her and we will always be her biggest cheerleaders. We love you Meghan with all of our hearts!

Do you have someone cheering you on? I hope so. But if you can’t name anyone, don’t forget that there is always someone cheering you on. He’s the One who thought so much of you that He freely gave up His life for yours on the cross. He’s proud of you. He accepts you, and He is cheering you on to greater things today. His Name is Jesus Christ!

Next Level

2010-06-30T12:36:00.003-04:00

Wow, we just came back from hearing some testimonies from a bunch of the high school students who are attending the Next Level program at our church. Next Level is a two-week intense discipleship program that we've offered here in the summer for the last three years. The program runs from 9 to 9 everyday, Monday through Friday, and is a combination of prayer, worship, teaching, serving, goofing off and having fun.

This year we have just over 100 students who have given up two weeks of their summer to grow in their relationship with Jesus Christ and each other. I wish you could have heard what we just heard. These students are the real deal and as they shared with us the things God has been teaching them the last week in a half we just shook our heads in amazement. The insight that these young people have is truly inspiring as they went around the room and talked about how God was changing them and how much they were in love with Jesus and willing to give Him their lives.

A few of them spoke of how hard it was to lose some of their other friends because of their commitment to become a true-blue follower of Jesus, and these are kids who are still in a season of their lives when relationships are everything.

Well, I just wanted to share with you that we just left a room full of hope. A hope for a brighter future, a hope for America and a hope for the world. Jesus is still changing lives here on earth and He is doing it here in the lives of some high school students at Valley Family Church. Beth and I are so thankful for Matt McCarty our pastor/director over high school and middle school ministries and Jeff (PJ) Werkmeister our high school pastor. These two young men have a heart after God and a love for these kids that is real and genuine and their work is truly impacting their generation and beyond.

Thanks Matt and PJ for making a difference in the lives of these kids, and for what you've done in the lives of the four Jones kids. We will be forever grateful for your efforts. We love you guys.

So, if you've ever wondered if this world has a chance, then be encouraged because there is a generation of Jesus lovers and people servers who are being raised up in Kalamazoo, Michigan who are ready to take themselves and the world around them to the Next Level.

Yours for Him-

Jeff

A Day of Solitude

2010-06-25T16:04:00.005-04:00

What a day I've had. I'm one of those guys who enjoys a little time alone. Hope that doesn't sound too self-centered, but I know there are others out there just like me. We love people and to share our lives with others, but every so often it's nice just to get alone and get quiet. I've had one of those days today, sitting all alone on our back deck by the pool wrapping up this weekend's message. It's been good just to spend some time with my Bible and my Lord talking about life.

In just a little while I'm heading out with my wife to play a round of golf with some other couples and have a nice dinner with some new friends. What a great way to end a day of solitude with nice conversations and a lot of laughs.

Thank you Lord!

Preparing for a Message

2010-06-24T10:53:00.003-04:00

I'm taking a little break from my studies to talk about the sermon that I'm working on. What an awesome privilege it is to share with our congregation from the Word of God. It's such an awesome responsibility that should never be taken lightly.

Today we are preparing the last message in a series called "Slacker" and the message deals with jerking the slack out of our 9 to 5. As you can imagine it's a message of how we can glorify Jesus Christ through our work lives. I'm going to be using an example from the life of David that will remind us all that he didn't start out being the"King David" we all know and appreciate, but that he started his journey much lower on the org chart. In fact, he was the youngest of eight boys, but there was something special about this young man and his approach to life that guided him from shepherding his father's sheep to shepherding a entire nation. So my prayer today is that God will continue to guide my thoughts to allow this message to touch the hearts and minds of our people, helping them to apply these simple principles to their lives and glorify God everyday in their 9 to 5.

Like it says in Colossians 3:23, "and whatever you do, do it heartily as to the Lord and not to men." May all of our "whatever we do's" today show off our love and commitment to Jesus.

In Him-

Jeff

100,000 Miles

2010-04-17T11:54:00.003-04:00

I've been trying to remember how many times I've driven a car past 100K miles. I've been driving for 36 years, and I'm pretty sure that every new car I've owned I've driven beyond this special mark on the odometer. We crossed this milestone last night coming home from watching our son Eric play some AAU b-ball up in Grand Rapids. Had to stop and take a picture to prove it.

The Gideon's

2010-04-16T15:09:00.002-04:00

I spoke this morning to the state convention of the Gideon's. What a cool group who are totally committed to sharing the Good News of Jesus Christ through the distribution of Bibles and leading folks down the Roman Road to personal faith. I shared with them how it was through a Gideon Bible placed in at hotel room in Traverse City Michigan lead to my personal commitment to Jesus. I hope they were encouraged to see what their work has done in my life.

Day One 2.0

2010-04-15T14:23:00.002-04:00

Going to speak tomorrow at the state convention of the Gideon's. I couldn't be more thankful for this organization. It was through a Gideon placed Bible in a hotel room in Traverse City that I gave my life to Jesus Christ over 25 years ago. What a journey of faith it's been ever since. We'll never know the name of the faithful Gideon volunteeer who made sure that there was a Bible in that room. But because of their service to Jesus Christ I was saved, atttended Bible School and now with my wife, we pastor Valley Family Church in Kalamazoo, Michigan. A church that ministers to nearly 4,000 people every weekend. Thank God for the Gideon's! Can't wait to tell them myself how grateful I am.

Day One

2010-04-15T14:13:00.000-04:00

It begins today! Many of you are probably wondering what I'm thinking about today. Well, let me tell you... not much. Just testing out a new blogging service for our website jeffandbethjones.com. Peace out my people!